Seems to me that he's got a valid point. He just picked a crappy way to present it to you. I'm sure there was a tactful way he could have gotten his point across, while being sure to let you know how much he appreciates your efforts.
Have him learn how to delete messages. And work up a discrete signal some how so that if you want to send him an intimate message while he's at work, he'll know he shouldn't read it when someone can look over his shoulder.
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