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I'd like to add my ten cents worth by saying that you are not alone. I have been interviewing people about virginity loss for the past year and blogging about it and never cease to be amazed by the amount of virgins out there.
They all say the exact same things as you.
As someone once said to me, 'the only way out of this, is into it'. Ok, they wern't talking about virginity loss but you get what I mean. Jump into the game and make some mistakes. Say stupid stuff and don't worry about it too much. People find that kind of stuff surprisingly endearing. 'Mr Friendly' speaks some words of wisdom as well - find some people who like the same things as you - theres no better basis for a relationship of any kind.
I would only take issue with one point here and that was the person who said you will learn everything you need to know about sex from porn. Not true. The mechanics, perhaps. But the intracacies, the little things that make us all unique - no. Every woman is different and the only way to find out what she likes is to ASK!!! A lot of women don't have orgasms from men jack-rabbiting away on top of them. A woman will only love you more if you really communicate with her and find out what makes her tick. This is my number one bona fide best piece of advice possible. Communication is the only thing that leads to true intimacy.
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