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Originally Posted by Kpax
Wow judging by these posts one would think that the solution is merely the effort away.
I think there is the possibility that some of us just weren't meant to have fun, and I'm really speaking for myself mainly. I hope I'm not the only one on the planet. It's hard to start from scratch and gather a group of friends, and even harder if you want that group to include a romantic aspect.
I mean, cliques are tight, and a lot of factors are involved in just who is able to just walk right into a circle. You have to have neutral looks, and a friendly personality, and looks that make that personality look friendly. W/out those, it's all uphill.
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Originally Posted by MrFriendly
You know it is hard, it is very hard.
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The thing is, it's hard, but it's simple. It all boils down to just eating your social barriers and getting out there. Manning up, if you will. There's no workarounds, there's no easy way to do it. You go out and do things you enjoy doing and make a point to interact with no people while you're at it. You may even embarrass yourself a few times, but you keep doing it anyway.
The way I see it is, if you're asking for advice you must not be happy with the way you are now. So why not be the person you want to be? If you want to be social, why not just go out and do it? What's actually stopping you, apart from yourself?