<- 28, soon to be 29 year old Virgin. it doesn't bother me, it doesn't define me as a person. When/if I find a Woman that I would like to be with and it's mutual then awesome. Until then, I've gone my entire life without sex and I'm just fine, a happy man. I have no problems talking to Women, meet loads of them all the time. They just all happen to be taken or just not interested mutually or just not the right time.
Something like Sex I don't think should define anyone, either an abundance or lack of it doesn't seem to effect me or my relationships with other sexually active people. I have friends who seldom get laid to friends who fornicate on a highly regular schedule. There are more important things in life then Sex.
obviously there are the urges and that's the natural way of things, procreation, attraction etc etc. Maybe I'll be a Virgin for my entire life, and to be totally honest, it doesn't bother me one bit.
So don't be worried if you haven't gotten laid yet, you're 25, young and obviously have the proverbial "world at your feet"
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