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I have to agree with Push-Pull. But I'm not so sure it is a big deal. Don't get me wrong, I like it. But the only thing that happened after having sex was that I wanted more of it. I lost it on my virginity on my 21st birthday. I only had it then because I wanted it to be with someone I was going to be with for a long time (I'm marrying her in August).
Had we not been thinking/knowing long-term, I'd probably be in your situation. And while I can understand it can be, don't let it bother you. The way Push-Pull laid it out happened to me. Can't complain.
Also, don't think of it as a negative. Every time it came up with my friends they were surprised I was a virgin but it didn't change anything, and my soon-to-be wife was surprised I was one but thought it was really cute. I think she was somewhat flattered that she could introduce me to it all.
Let nature take its course. It may take longer than you want, but things will work out.
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