Y'know, I do a lot of research about marriage migration (a.k.a. mail-order brides, or chat-room brides in this day and age), and I have to be honest and say that when I see a birthdate for a husband being in 1936, and the birthdate for the wife being 1977... honestly, yeah, that does set off my "creepy as hell" alarm. Are the rest of you actually okay with something like that?? Especially when the couple has never met before, and one person flies across the world to get married to a total stranger... and there's a massive age difference... I just don't know how I could live with that. Each to their own, clearly.
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And think not you can direct the course of Love;
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