I'm going to take a different approach. I'm going to lump this with your Seattle movement.
It's time for you to decide just what to do to move your life forward. Do you keep what has and is holding you back in the past (friends, family, roommates, girlfriend, Idaho,) or do you put it all aside and move forward to what you believe will provide you the most opportunity? You can always retrieve true friends once you've established yourself.
For some reason I'm reminded of a song from Rush, Freewill. If you attach yourself to this individual will you still be able to truly persue the things you've stated you wanted? Or will you compromise them in some fashion so that you could be together?
Quote:
You can choose a ready guide
In some celestial voice.
If you choose not to decide
You still have made a choice
You can choose from phantom fears
And kindness that can kill;
I will choose a path that's clear-
I will choose free will
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You dipped your toe into the water... it's your move to either jump into the water or continue to stand on the sidelines.
good luck!
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