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It's time for you to really decide what it is you want from her.
Do you just want to be friends? Do you want her back as a girlfriend? Do you want to have and hold her till death do you part?
Decide what that really is. What your expectations of her are. Decide what you are willing to offer her in exchange. Spell those things out to her in no uncertain terms, and then walk away until such time that she is ready to commit to the relationship that you are wanting with her.
Call it making demands. Call it an ultimatum if you will.
I would call it setting expectations and personal boundaries in a relationship. If she is not commited to meeting your needs, respecting your boundaries, and accepting what it is that you are offering to her in return, then there is no relationship.
It needs to be equitable, or it won't work. Right now she is sitting on a fence getting some of her needs met by you, others by "soulmate" boy. All the while disrespecting both of you. It's time for her to shit or get off the pot.
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