Quote:
|
Originally Posted by digme
I've been thinking a lot about this article and I wish we could have gotten the husbands perspective. I was left wondering "is he really ok with it, or is he just doing it because the other option would be losing his wife"?
Maybe he's totally cool with it. But it would have been nice to hear his half as the spouse who is less interested in more partners.
|
Yeah, I thought about that too. Particularly as many of the negative responses to the article had to do with how she was torturing her husband for her own selfish needs...it would be nice to get his perspective.
From our own experience, it doesn't really work if one person's just putting up with it and sitting on angst and fear and insecurity. The dam always bursts.