Hmm isnt this just some form of mind games? I dont think any form of mind games are ever good when it comes to relationships.
I'm very naive and I take things in a literal sense most of the time. And once this girl was like "fine, if you want to go just go then". If i were to read this at that moment i would sense double trouble right there. But nope didnt pick up on it, I went. I think if it bug her enough she would talk about it, but noooo I have to figure it out?
Here's a list courtesy of HBI:
http://www.heartless-bitches.com/rants/nicevshb.shtml
And I would perfer the balant truth rather than niceness.