I had a relationship somewhat similar to that for about 3 years and I really regret not appreciating this guy more. Things didn't work out between us and I don't think that they were meant to be - but it doesn't mean you two won't be able to work this out.
I've done a lot of reading on how to love and accept and appreciate people (they helped me all across the board). Finding such a book would be a nice way for you both to spend time together. Try to find one that is SHORT and illustrated though, If you are already having trouble with your studies and time. Sometimes we just need a little reminder to put us backon track. By participating and showing her that you too are willing to make an effort to change should prevent her from feeling defensive. This could be a way to put a postive spin on it. Enjoy the opportunity to rexamine your relationship and rekindle the romance,
All the best.
- GingerRoot
Last edited by GingerRoot; 06-24-2007 at 09:27 AM..
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