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It's definitely not pity. I personally think the past is no excuse for the present...you can't keep continuing a mistake through generations, people have to change. I am with him because I love him.
This week I get paid and we are going to book a holiday together for the first time. I will keep a journal and see how things go. I think if in 6 months time if he repeats any of the patterns of behaviour then I will sit down with him and call it a day for my own sake but I am hopeful that he's finally grown up. Perhaps now it is up to me just to either learn to accept that or move on...
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