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I second kirk. Ignore the other guy. You need to do what is best for you and this is apparently tearing you up.
In my experience just to get it off your chest will make you feel enormously better no matter how the conversation goes. Yes it could go badly, but it could also go amazingly well. Instead of wondering about it just do it. No matter what happens you have changed the situation and moved forward. Right now you are in limbo worrying about it which is why, I believe, it is bothering you so much.
I know that for me, if I have no control over a situation, it doesn’t bother me nearly as much. Right now you are in control. She has no idea how you feel and as such cannot react to it. If you tell her everything it is now completely up to her what happens. For me at least that would be a huge load off my shoulders.
But I don’t know your personality, maybe it would just bother you more that way. I just feel like you are in limbo waiting for her to react to feelings that she doesn’t know you have.
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