I would say that if one is looking or attracted to a gal simply because she is younger and thus, in their eyes, more attractive solely in a physical, superficial way, then yes it's icky.
If one cannot ever carry on a meaningful relationship with a female closer to one's own age, but instead needs someone not as demanding or mature, then it's icky.
If you both have a real connection, and can make conversation as well as knock boots (old skool alert!) then it's not icky.
But be honest about the connection part.
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"Love is a snowmobile racing across the tundra and then suddenly it flips over, pinning you underneath.
At night, the ice weasels come." -
Matt Groening
My goal? To fulfill my potential.
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