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Tilted Cat Head
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Location: Manhattan, NY
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Originally Posted by liamfoster
What did I learn:
Do not test a woman.
But above all, never ever create dramas with a woman, never have emotional response to things, they kill the attraction. On the contrary, keep always the cocky and funny profile, and if she really wants to talk down or create dramas... here it comes the biggest challenge.... I have to be able to switch her pattern, say or do something crazy, stupid, which will flip the situation and eventually she will forget about the drama and not be able to go back into it.
Because it happened exactly like that!
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wow... that set back the "emotional sensitive man" back like 3 decades...
emotions aren't bad, what is bad is how one reacts to and deals with the emotions. also, if you think that you can "flip" the situation so that she can forget about the drama, you've got another thing coming, she'll just say you aren't listening nor are you paying attention to her need to just speak without need to fix it.
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