guys, for those who followed my story and gave me some opinions, there are some updates from my side.
I realized I made a mistake in testing her, for the following reasons:
by realizing that she could be a cheater I became more needy and insecure, I started to doubt about everything she told me and she definitely felt this defensive/needy attitude of mine, which made me less attractive to her.
What kills a woman's attraction towards a man is when she detects his insecurity, needy.
I would have never acted this way if I didnt know this potential attitude of her.
Maybe she would have cheated on me, maybe not, but for sure she'd have never told me that cause she cares about me, and I'd have kept my usual brilliant/cocky/calm profile which she really loves.
Now I've finally turned the situation 'i think' back to normal, by being agan mr cocky/funny/self confident and she seems fine again as well, even if we reached a point of extreme tension in which we were about to break up because of my insecurity.
What did I learn:
Do not test a woman.
But above all, never ever create dramas with a woman, never have emotional response to things, they kill the attraction. On the contrary, keep always the cocky and funny profile, and if she really wants to talk down or create dramas... here it comes the biggest challenge.... I have to be able to switch her pattern, say or do something crazy, stupid, which will flip the situation and eventually she will forget about the drama and not be able to go back into it.
Because it happened exactly like that!
Last edited by liamfoster; 06-20-2007 at 05:12 AM..
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