I believe that perhaps you are over thinking this all and making it more difficult on yourself?When I decided that I wanted a child, I wanted a child. That meant any child that we created. There were chances that the child could have something wrong, and I was offered tests to see if this was the case. I declined all such tests. Tests would not help me because the results would not matter. The choice you have to make is to decide if the results of you creating a child matter. The child will love you and you will love the child no matter what happens.
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