Shauk

hahaha, wow, I cannot BELIEVE the number of posts saying "omg you suck for doing that to her"

Now, maybe your "faith" is good enough for your deity of choice, but humans are an untrustworthy lot, you can't even trust yourself to do the right thing (oh its ok, you can eat that twinkie) everyone has flaws, now, it just so happens that faith and trust are EARNED in my opinion.

Now if you suspected that she was a little too easy to fall into your lap in some internet relationship and its too good to be true, then it probably is. Thats what these "tests" are for. She failed miserably, yet he's the bad guy? whatever.

if anything i'd want my girl to be able to take a little fire from some hornball and show that she's got some fucking integrity before wasting any more of my time with her. My mortality is limited, and my standards are high. I would have dumped her right then and there.

Granted, I don't really do the online relationship thing, I tried it once, it sucks, I'll never do it again, but had I done something like that to her before I dumped her anyway, I can certainly say I wouldn't have felt like a bad guy unless she proved that she really was there for me.

anyways, I didn't read every post in this thread because it seemed too much like there was a bunch of hiveminds jumping on him for setting her up, I just had to skip to the end to throw in a defense.

edit: i went back and read it all, my post still stands, god TFP, you disappoint me.

I guess if all you care about in the span of your mortality is remaining ignorant to the truth at the expense of feeling fuzzy and warm at night about "trust" until the truth actually smacks you upside the head so hard that your insides leak out of your ear, then sure. You all have the right idea.