Cynthetiq

Thanks Jazz for that clarification.

opportunities.. yes that was key. I had to allow myself to be where I was more open to opportunities that I wanted and wanted me. For you it may be Seattle. I left California 16 years ago, and I never thought I would be in NY longer than a couple of years, yet here I still am.

each opportunity opened yet another door, to give me yet another opportunity, thus the job I thought would only be a stepping stone for a year or two, lead me to meeting my wife and many good friends, and I stayed there for 11 years. Who knew. But yes, it gave me the opportunity to flourish where I was never able to flourish before.

again, I wish you luck.

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