my post is not an attack on your character, you choose to read it that way.
you also choose to read rule 6 as defeatist. I don't settle for anything in my life, but I understand that pulling a "geographic" has never solved anything in my life. I've moved plenty in my life for the same reasons you've mentioned. As I moved I carried that same baggage around with me where ever I wound up. I had to learn to get rid of that baggage in some manner. Some of it was accepting that the baggage exists and will always be there, examples of those are things I cannot do anything about such as my heritage, upbringing, past deeds, past wasted opportunities. Some I just put down because they were absurd to carry, such as expecting that I will marry and have children. It was something that took me years to realize that I only wanted the marry part.
In ADDITION to the geographic change, I had to alter the rest of the package. Otherwise, same results would happen that happened everywhere else I lived.
You've hit the nail on the head with "same actions over and over."
Quote:
Insanity: doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results.
Albert Einstein, (attributed)
US (German-born) physicist (1879 - 1955)
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again, I wish you the best on the journey, because it is what it is. (double entendre intentional.)
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