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Originally Posted by Lady Sage
Thank you. Whats done is done and he did what he felt he needed to. I feel he has been hurt before and wants to make sure what he is getting into before he gives his heart. Ok, fine. If not, ok, fine. I have tested people I felt were dicking me over in the past. Not necessarily in this manner. If they passed they set my heart at ease and I told them congrats, I tested your trustworthiness, you passed! (Insert hug here.) If they failed? I walked away never to talk to them again.
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I nearly walked away from a relationship when I found out I had "passed" her test. She concocted an elaborate story and was cold and distant for a whole week then got her best friend to make advances on me. I was shocked she could be so immature, and while we worked it out, she did not learn from any of it and I ended up breaking it off after more of her game playing.
I should have just walked away completely after the first time, and I will do so in the future. Tests are for high school, not a mature relationship.