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eggman414 · 06-10-2007, 05:42 PM

Speaking as a guy, I think you absolutely should tell him, but be nice about it (obviously). I was once with a girl and I could kinda tell that she wasn't particularly enjoying herself when I was down there, so I asked her if there was anything she'd like me to do differently, and she got very uncomfortable about it. I never asked again, but the lack of communication-in that as well as other areas-meant that the relationship didn't last very long.

Point is, tell him. There's gotta be open communication; if he takes it well (and he should if you're nice about it) it'll be better for both of you.

06-10-2007, 05:42 PM	#32 (permalink)
eggman414 Upright Location: NYC, USA	Speaking as a guy, I think you absolutely should tell him, but be nice about it (obviously). I was once with a girl and I could kinda tell that she wasn't particularly enjoying herself when I was down there, so I asked her if there was anything she'd like me to do differently, and she got very uncomfortable about it. I never asked again, but the lack of communication-in that as well as other areas-meant that the relationship didn't last very long. Point is, tell him. There's gotta be open communication; if he takes it well (and he should if you're nice about it) it'll be better for both of you.