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How long has this been going on, and what's going on in her life? It makes a big difference if she's taking finals, or doing something else stressful and time-consuming. If that's what's going on, I'd just wait until it's over. But if it's been going on more than a couple weeks, you might want to say something like "It seems like we talk less than we used to, and I miss that." It's entirely possible to do without sounding 'needy'.
And I should probably add that sometimes it's okay to sound needy. I'm away from my gf this summer, and about a week into it, I called a good friend of mine to talk about how lonely I was feeling. This good friend of mine basically said, "Well, I'm happy to listen to this and everything, but you should really call *her*." And she was right. Part of being in a relationship is being willing to admit you're needy.
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"Die Deutschen meinen, daß die Kraft sich in Härte und Grausamkeit offenbaren müsse, sie unterwerfen sich dann gerne und mit Bewunderung:[...]. Daß es Kraft giebt in der Milde und Stille, das glauben sie nicht leicht."
"The Germans believe that power must reveal itself in hardness and cruelty and then submit themselves gladly and with admiration[...]. They do not believe readily that there is power in meekness and calm."
-- Friedrich Nietzsche
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