well i am not sure was sms is... but anyway..
why not just talk to her about it? if you two really love each other like you say you do, there is no reason why you can ask her about this. Its only natural to discuss, especially if the change in her is noticeable. she may even be wondering why you havent said anything?
I would just ask, and make sure everything is okay with her. maybe something else it bothering her or on her mind.
you are her friend, right? a friend, no matter what the sexual relation, would try to understand their friend in any situation. so give her a call and have a conversation about it. thats what i would expect my boyfriend to do, or what i would do if i were in your situation...
let us know how it goes...
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