This thread is pretty cool
. Seems the OP had a little rough time but some of you guys are so civil even when trying to be uncivil..or something. Anyway I sorta understand the OP, I was in a similar situation before, but it was the girl doing it to me. She tried to set me up, and I worked out it was her from just a weird feeling about it all. She got her one of her friends to phone me to make it seem real even. I'm the kind of guy who would flirt with other girls even if I'm in a relationship but nothing serious, I'm pretty dedicated now after some messed up experiences in the past. Anyway I confronted her about it and ofcourse at first she completely denied it, but after a few minutes of me staring her down, she buckled and said she didn't trust me because of how previous boyfriends had cheated on her. Info: our relationship was going about 3 months, with me travelling about for my job for some of it. I understood her, because I know trust comes with time, our relationship wasn't super serious at that point so it wasn't a big deal to me. I'm used to people lieing and being deceitful, its human nature. Like everyone knows, no one is perfect. My advice from this situation is to meet her as the fake guy, then apologize and well if you love her, say whatever from your heart. No idea what happens here but it'd be interesting
? Maybe my advice is bad... but whatever, seems theres a problem here you can't really ignore, so a confrontation has to happen at some time.
(PS. I'm new here too! Bit frightened on how you guys would view some of the messed up things I've done, and that have happened to me in my relationships, never really told anyone, but looking forward to it
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