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I'm going to disagree with the majority of people here.
Yes, you should have talked to her about your insecurities instead of being manipulative. But I think she was equally as wrong if not more so by her actions towards another (fake) guy.
The majority of people think that she was set up and that naturally she would be inclined to flirt. But based on what the OP said, the conversation went beyond flirting and into sexual innuendos and even an arranged meetup.
That to me is definitely a sign of cheating, or a strong inclination towards cheating. I don't know why everyone argues that that sort of action is okay, it's not. I don't know what type of girls everyone dates, but I would never date a girl who had sexual conversations with strangers online. Maybe I'm more conservative, but either way, that kind of girl is not good news.
To sum it up, there were better ways to deal with your insecurities such as communicating to her and talking about certain issues, boundaries, and situations. However, I believe she was equally at fault for actually taking the bait. I don't care how tempting things may be, I would never seriously date a girl who so easily flirted with someone else, just not my thing.
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