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Originally Posted by willravel
Don't bring it up in front of his/her parents, though. They might not understand.
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That statement brought chuckles. My mom-in-law asked me shortly after our wedding if he was okay in that department, or if he needed a father-son talk.
My cheeks turned pink.
Don't tell him he's bad, just teach him what you like. Nothing wrong with a little "that's great but try this..." or "more this, less that." Everyone's different. He could be doing what another person taught him she likes, or what he has seen in movies.
Be sure you follow up by asking what kinds of things YOU could be doing differently to make it better for him, too. In addition to improving that end, you would also be shifting focus from 'correcting' to 'exploring.'