If the problem really is that 'she has a 2 year old son' I think she ought to know this at the starting gate. Before her son gets attached (and they do), and before she gets the idea you could be anything serious.
Other than that, Willravel gave a very good post and had helpful questions for you. More to ask youself: exactly what about it do you not like? The noise, commitment, time structure, little people, responsibility, you don't like kids, you aren't used to kids but don't dislike them?
I was a single mommy for 5 years. If anyone thought my having a daughter was a 'problem' it was best to let them find someone else. A better fit, if you will. Because I never wanted her to feel that she was a hinderance, or anything other than a blessing.
Good Luck.
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