The_Jazz says:
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Ever since college when I got a blowjob that actually HURT and made me bleed.
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Whuh...
How is that
possible?
It can be difficult to say "I like this/that" when you don't really know, or you're not used to having that discussion. All I can suggest is practice--whee!--and as you get more comfortable with what makes you happy, verbalize it in whatever way you see fit. If something's going on that just doesn't work for you, say something, but I'd suggest being gentle about it. "Instead of (that), try (this)" is going to go over a lot better than "dammit, the hell are you doing?"