tenniels

Oh wow, I can't believe I haven't seen this post until now. I guess I won't say much, even though we as members of TFP were asked for our opinions. I don't believe that anything said in here, from my viewpoint was out of line. I as many people here, would've responed with honesty and from the heart. I do this same to people who are in my life physically not just virtually. I think it would be very disrespectful to sugarcoat one's opinion just to "make nice" with the original poster just because he's new, or because it may not be what he or the other minority of folks who agree with him want to hear. I think when you are on a forum and ask for advice/opinions you should be prepared for responses, good and bad. So this guy's girlfriend potentially could have cheated. That sucks. Maybe she isn't trustworthy, maybe she's a bad girlfriend, maybe she's a horrible douchebag whore. Maybe not. The situation was a set up, so what can you take from it that is real? Nothing. I think setting someone up like that is extremely weird. I honestly believe in order be able to set one's SO (or actually SO's, since it's happened multiple times) requires a strange and sick thought process that I'm quite happily unable to indentify with (I find the thought process of getting to the point of setting up one's SO sick and strange, not the poster). Don't agree with what I just said? Good, different opinions is what makes life real and interesting. Let's not be affraid of keeping TFP honest for fear of being "mean". As I said, I think it would be completely disrespectful to the orginal poster to lie or sugar coat our responses just to be politically correct. Here's to honesty, in our forum AND in relationships.

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