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Judging people by what they say/do/act/wear is not an epidemic. Its human nature.
I would like to quote from somewhere I dont remember but it should sum up alot "Some people will tell you lies so you can feel better about yourself, I will tell you the truth so you can better yourself" what alot of people are doing is telling him what he's doing is juvenile and its not how one should act in a relationship. Sure she took the bait and yes the majority of the comments where about his fualt but it have been said she's wrong too. I think what they are conveying (correct me if I'm wrong) is that just because she's rotten doesnt mean he have to be too, and that's the worst way to try and fine out. Also he's the one posting so they are just being truthful about his behavoir.
Its not a blame game. I'm sure if she post and ask if what she's doing is wrong since her preception on the guidlines of relationship was a little distorted,so she thought it was not wrong at the moment and what others are thinking like noodlebee's wonderment, everyone here would say she've done wrong, and focus on her behavoir as bad more then that of the guy.
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Just because it's called common sense, doesn't mean it's a common trait
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