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Originally Posted by liamfoster
jth - i understand your point. but let me articulate the situation with more details: she surely wouldnt go out only for a coffe considering that she led the sexual innuendos untill talking about sexual positions and other sexual stuff..... the point is that she loves sex and she wrote to the fake me that to love someone is different than just to go and have sex with someone and that she can do both, so it wasnt something innocent.
For doing what I did, I know I am not that innocent either, and i do recognize we are quite similar, and plus i just spoke with her on the phone and she told me how much she loves me and want to move in with me, next month..... so it's just a matter of her proably wanting extra sex with someone new.... nothing to do with being unhappy with me. we do stimulate and challenge one another quite a lot.
Again, I know i did something quite unfair, and i discovered something quite unfair. I will quote myself by saing that the situation is like this : I left on purpose a wallet on the sidewalk.... there are those who pick it up and steal it....those who bring it back to the police, and those who just keep going and ignore it.
See, i didnt force anything, I'd paste the chat text and show you guys how neutral i was, but it's not the case.
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OH....
MY.......
GOD!!!....
I finally read this thread today, and I cannot BELIEVE that you think you are even REMOTELY in the right here! NO MAN has the right to TEST their mate or potential mate. If you don't trust them, or feel like there is a trust issure, you TALK TO THEM! You don't TEST them. That is the fastest way to end any chance of a potential relationship. You now mistrust her. PERIOD. Even though you were TOTALLY in the wrong here. And you're analogy that the end justifies the means is ATROCIOUS! So I have this big bomb, I can drop it on Iraq and kill almost every terrorist in the country...I might kill a few innocent civilians, but hey, the end justifies the means right? I mean get real here! Ya know, I can forgive a lady for an indescresion with someone online, even if the flirtation was leading to an encounter, you STILL have no way to know that she would actually go through with it. but YOU however created an entire entrapment issue with a fake "person" for her to talk to. YOU lied initially to try and see if she would "fail" your little test. I say shame on you, and SHE deserves better than YOU for a mate.
I will now step off my soapbox!