Bajingo

I do realize anxiety is a possibility, though it's not like we haven't done ANYthing sexual together, we have a pretty extensive background when it comes to making each other cum, sans intercourse.

If it is anxiety, as much as we've been together, even when penetration wasn't on the menu, she was still extremely tight, even after all this time, and we are very comfortable with each other. It's very honest between us on these issues.

It's not a problem getting one or even two fingers inside of her, She is the wettest girl i've ever been with, like... change the sheets wet, and its very easy for me to get her like that too.

I've heard before, that it's a good idea for a female to go to her gyno before/after her first intercourse, so I am going to throw that out there for her, it's a good idea anyway, and a friendly member PMed me a bit of info on what to ask to see if there is something physical causing something like this.

as much as we've been together, I can't imagine its "conscious" anxiety, or subconscious either really. We've been sexually active alot, sans intercourse, and we are both very comfortable with each other for awhile now even when penetration wasn't on the menu.

I've even brought up a point or two made here, and she agree's that consciously she is very comfortable and accepting to everything we've done up to this point, and even when she masturbates, 2 fingers is almost too much for her.

If when masturbating you aren't comfortable with what is going on, I don't know when you can be really.



Anyway, I've heard its a good idea for females to go to their gyno before/after their first intercourse, so I'm going to bring that up, she planned on going after, but maybe before is also a good idea, it really can't hurt, and a friendly member here PMed me a bit of info about what questions she should ask and what exactly to tell the doctor about when/where/how bad it hurts to see if there could be something physical that is causing the situation.