Saying she's relaxed and being so are two different things...
First, is she dripping wet or dry? Inbetween or maybe dries out quickly?
Physically, she's not a 'virgin', just in the ways of straight-on sex, so I'm sticking with involuntary anxiety.
The time, when it comes, has to have spontaneity and a flow to it, a result of something building at that time. One prior thought about the process and everything locks down.
We're telling you what transpires because, well....that's what happens. It's not attacking your knowledge or lack of.
Once you and she are truly into it and truly going for it, you have to go slow-'tease' by stroking her labia with your penis. Don't just try for a home run and jam it-ever so slowly enter; take a lot of time to do so to give her enough time and self-lube to accept you. Just the tip for a while, then a tiny bit more. Back off if she's hurting and hug, kiss, love her for a while and maybe try again. It could take all night, but it'll be worth it.
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Originally Posted by match000
So I asked my buddy who is a first year med student.. he told me that "sure, it can get loose.. its a muscle, and so why can't the muscle fibres relax and get more flexible and loose over time, just like any other muscle?" And then he pointed out that, for example, older women are looser (of course he's guessing he doesn't have this experience)...
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Would he like to?
j/k....
I
am an older woman and ain't nothing loose here except my upper arms
