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69 is great unless you've got a partner who is a foot shorter than you... then it's more like 29... with my neck curled and her stretching like an ostrich.
As for giving to the ladies? Oh, the legs up is just boss. Get the knees up on the shoulders and it's like some kind of delicate moist buffet of nerve endings to attack. I think that access and comfort is the key for cunnilingus. Keep those hips curled up and back. Nothing screws up your rhythm like your neck telling you that it isn't a slinky and your jaw muscles sending up smoke signals. Side of the bed with legs up is the preferred method of oral assault.
I don't like the standing fellatio thing. I had a bad experience where it got a little intense and I took out an expensive table lamp as I tried to curl my toes into the hardwood floor and Wolverine-claw the drywall. She was pissed... they were rare matching table lamps. I like it grounded (office chair, kitchen floor, giant beanbag), where I can feel her hair brush my hips and stomach, and I can feel her breasts swaying against my thighs. Grah, that's the stuff.
Needless to say: Men don't really complain about the substance of blowjobs. They complain about not getting them. Like me. Wha-wha-wha.
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