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Originally Posted by liamfoster
the ends justifies the means
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You keep using that phrase. I do not think it means what you think it means.
Anyway... so basically what it boils down to is that you don't trust her. Why would you want to continue a relationship with someone you don't trust, let alone move in with them?
Also, I think if you would stop being so defensive for a second and hear what we're all saying, it might really help. You have issues trusting girls... I don't think you can deny that. The problem with that is, you won't ever be able to develop healthy, happy relationships because you are trying to control something that is uncontrollable. You can't control her choices or actions, but you CAN control yours... which is exactly why it makes no difference whose "sin" was greater. You've admitted that you did wrong, and now you need to do what you can to make it right... or at the very least, don't make the same mistake again.