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Originally Posted by liamfoster
I left on purpose a wallet on the sidewalk.... there are those who pick it up and steal it....those who bring it back to the police, and those who just keep going and ignore it.
See, i didnt force anything, I'd paste the chat text and show you guys how neutral i was, but it's not the case.
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No. What you did was leave the wallet, then stand there and continuously badger her into taking, and now you're taking offense because she walked by and glanced at the wallet on the ground.
Based on what you said, all it sounds like is she engaged in playful banter. Not once in your original post did you mention that they were supposed to meet for sex.
You put it in her head that he was kind of a lost tourist and then turned it into a friendship. Was there ever any mention of it being a meeting for anything beyond just a cup of coffee and her showing him around the city a bit? Your only proof is that she used sexual innuendos. Hell, I've used sexual innuendos with friends that I have no intention of sleeping with and who know that it's just me joking around. I know she said that relationships were different than just having sex with someone, and she could do both, but did she actually say that's what was going on here? I'm guessing not. It sounds more like you were searching for what you wanted to hear. A lot of people can do both, it doesn't mean that they will do both at the same time. Dude, grow up and tell her what you did.
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Originally Posted by liamfoster
am I manipulative? the ends justifies the means, and i dont understand why i am untrustworthy because I did that test.
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Quit saying that. The ends do
not justify the means.
YOU manipulated her into saying exactly what
YOU wanted to hear, and by the sounds of it, she didn't even go far enough where you even have a leg to stand on in this. Seriously, how old are you? Quit playing games and act like an adult. This situation isn't 50/50. This is 100% your issue.