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Here's how you're supposed to go about establishing the boundaries of a relationship:
Talk to the other person about it in a clear and straightforward manner.
This requires you to be clear on your own boundaries first, of course.
It's not clear what boundaries have been set. You may think of it as a 1:1 thing, but she may think of it as a long-distance friends-with-benefits arrangement. So whatever self-righteous sense of betrayal you may be trying to build for yourself is easily deflated by her simply saying "Whoa, guy. We didn't have that kind of relationship."
Just because you didn't want to see other people doesn't mean she felt the same way. And that's all you've found out. She may be acting with a clear conscience.... so leave the "cheating slut" rhetoric at home.
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