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Personally, I find that if you don't tell her about your past actions of this incident, you are being selfish. Yes, you created this issue yourself. But now you are withholding information and the right for this person to decide whether the relationship is still worth persuing. Yes, she should be telling you about her own action to you instead of your diguise too. But since you are the one asking us for advice instead of her, of course we are going to tell YOU what we feel is the best course of action instead of telling HER.
Maybe the ends do justify the means, but what happens to the responsibility-allocation afterwards? By not telling her, you are not even giving her the chance to explain herself, apologise and make the necessary actions to repair the relationship.
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