Angel to the rescue....heh heh
www.blueboutique.com hit browse our products and you will open up a world of possibilities.
It is difficult to truly suggest anything specific as we all have different preferences. However, the kits that have a main vibrating probe with various types of gel sleeves are great for variety and experimenting. Of course, that must include something that stimulates the clit as well and other arousing areas.
The other day I was looking at one of the tongue ones that also had suction abilities and I tinkered with the purchase, but the material it was made out of was hard and didn't seem as though it would give a "natural" feel so I opted out.
Might I suggest that you make a purchase for your guys pleasure as well. After all, he needs a little lovin' too!
Then when you are together you can have all kinds of fun.
If you have any specific questions or want more info, PM me. I'll be glad to assist in any way I can.
Ha ha! okay, there was no pun intended there!