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While Hal's right in general, there are specific cases where the vaginal opening is simply too small. It's a genetic abnormality, and it's relatively rare. I think he's right in this case, but I do want to point out the exception to the rule. I'm "intimately" familiar with it since I have a former girlfriend with the condition, and I had to go meet with her doctor when we started talking about sex so that we could figure out what would and wouldn't work.
One other thing - it's entirely possible that consciously she wants to have sex but unconsciously she doesn't. I've been in that situation too, and it was very frustrating for both of us.
Take things very slow. It might help to bring her to orgasm manually before attempting intercourse (it was one of the recommendations from the doctor). If she can have multiple orgasms, even better. As we all know, there's nothing like a good orgasm to relieve stress.
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