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Originally Posted by willravel
If shoe's rival, 'fucker', decides to put his moves on shoe's gf, then we'd have a problem whether she relented or not.
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My wife is quite attractive and, especially before she had the ring, people would flirt with her all the time. I didn't care because she'd rebuff them all. I would have started to care if she had been returning the favor
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Originally Posted by ShaniFaye
wait...you mean to say you're telling her she cant associate with a whole crowd of people that are her friends because there is one person there you dont like? Its not like she is socializing with the guy one on one....in effect your telling her that she has to start checking guest lists before she can socialize...and to me that sucks and is extremely immature
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Well I wouldn't say immature. See, when you cheat on someone, sometimes there are (and ought to be) consequences. Shoe was very, VERY kind to this girl to take her back after what she did. If his condition for doing that is that she not be near the person she cheated on him with, that's completely understandable. If she wanted to be able to freely associate with her friends without worrying about who else is there, perhaps she should have thought of that when she was getting ready to have sex with this other guy.
Plus, let's recall exactly what happened here. SHE agreed to his condition to get back together. She didn't have to do that. She could have refused his condition, and then she could visit (and have sex with) whoever she wanted. Even now, she still has the option of breaking it off with him if she decides that she doesn't like the condition she agreed to.
But she hasn't done any of that. Instead she was planning to go to this party where her ex-illicit-lover was going to be, and she chose to hide that from Shoe. Now, which of them is being immature?