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Originally Posted by ShaniFaye
wait...you mean to say you're telling her she cant associate with a whole crowd of people that are her friends because there is one person there you dont like? Its not like she is socializing with the guy one on one....in effect your telling her that she has to start checking guest lists before she can socialize...and to me that sucks and is extremely immature
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First off, I have been in the exact same situation as shoe word for word. She would be out with friends and I would ask her about who she was with. I would have to ask her twice before she would admit that fucker was there. ShaniFaye's argument is exactly what my ex told me when I gave her an ultimatum. And yes, it is immature but I was a very immature person at the time, so forgive me. She refused to give up her friends for me. Long story short, we broke up because I eventually found out that she WAS cheating on me with that fucker. Damn thing is...I don't know whether I drove her to cheat on me by constantly worrying about it, or whether she already was.
Anyways I've adopted a creed of no second chances, but that doesn't help out Shoe very much. I'd say give her the benefit of the doubt. If she does end up cheating, at least in the break-up, you will be the good guy and not the asshole that drove her into the arms of another man.