ditto on abaya and martian's advice kpax. i don't know how to put this gently, really...but i don't mean this to be offensive. there are so many things wrong with this scenario that i don't really know where to start. i think they've all been covered above; what i don't understand is your confusion on this. at all. this whole situation and the thought processes behind it are just chock full of bad ideas and ill-conceived notions of how people relate. everyone knows you bought the ring because one of them saw you with it, and because you've probably been scoping this girl out every second she's around. yeah, you've sent major creepy vibes to the whole group of them, and if i were you i'd cut ties to the whole thing. and i would get thee to a counselor as soon as you can. i know it might seem embarassing, but i think the best thing you can do is start with a clean slate and some more well formed concepts on interpersonal relationships. best of luck.
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