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Originally Posted by Washington
How do you deal with it?
Its starting to affect other areas of my life/make me feel depressed. I live with this person (roomate). I think she might feel some of the same feelings, but is engaged to someone else (who lives far away).
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Well, of all things that make me think that I don't have a chance with a girl (and there are many), the one thing that really drives the point home is when I know they are already involved, and that is either indicated by a ring on the left hand, or any sort of official relationship.
I mean, even if I know I don't have a chance with a girl because she is just way up there, high-caliber, it doesn't discourage me from getting an idea, but if I know she is happily married, that is one thing that becomes a rock through the pond of imagination. I just totally lose interest (or avoid it in the first place) and don't even think about it.
I know what unrequitted love is like. That's all I know, for I'm 25 and have never been on a date in my entire life. I won't lie and say that I've never thought about suicide because of it, but it certainly isn't something constantly on my mind.