Well you've given a lot of reasons why you might be feeling that way. weight gain, lack of movement, recent car crashes. These are all things that will contribute to your self image.
Are you unable to do anything because of the accident? I know for me when I'm feeling like a 'blob' it helps to be active and work out and at least get moving.
As for the sex part of your 'problem,' try something new and exciting. Go have sex outdoors, buy a new toy together, go try on some new clothes and have a nice session in a dressing room.
The bottom line is that if you're stationary because of your accident then all you can do is the most you can. Get moving as much as possible and use this 'down time' to find some more things your interested in.
No one suddenly becomes unattractive!
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Do What makes you happy
--Me
BUT!
"Happiness is the absence of the striving for happiness" - Chuang-Tzu
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