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Originally Posted by Kpax
I haven't really had one-on-one conversations with her about anything.
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Okay... Kpax, I don't think you are getting the message here. YOU DON'T KNOW THIS PERSON. I don't mean that you haven't "met" her, but the fact that you have never ACTUALLY spent time with her, is a huge warning signal. Not that you have to "know" someone to have a crush on them, of course, but the fact that you went out and spent $3000 on a fricking RING, and thought that this was normal behavior, concerns me (and other posters here) a great deal. That is really, really not normal behavior. I don't know how else to communicate this more clearly to you. This was NOT the right thing to do in that situation, by any stretch of the imagination.
Could you answer my earlier question, about what was your thought process for why this would be okay? Why a ring? Why that much money? It would be helpful for us to know exactly how your brain got wrapped around this idea, and then we can give you better feedback. Did you see this in a movie or something? Have you had a similar experience with another girl? I just need to understand more about what's going on in your brain here.
I hate to be even more harsh, but what does your issue have to do with the thread subject (first love)? Do you mean to say that you think you love this girl, this person you have never had a real conversation with? This should really be a separate thread, because now it's kind of threadjacked the OP's intent...