Originally Posted by Kpax

Re: Martian, abaya

Well, I really bought it just to have it on-hand. I might never have offered the ring. I was going to use it and offer it in an extreme situation, like, if I found out she was about to date a guy. I knew in my heart that it wouldn't change her mind in a scenario like that, but I wanted to send a message.

When I made the purchase, I theorized that I could just keep it on hand and if I ended up deeming it too extreme an idea, that I could take it back. Now I face consequences for something I didn't really even do. Since no one has actually seen the ring, but "know" I got it, I don't know how I could convince them that I've returned it, even if I really have returned it (which I haven't and probably won't).

I just want to know if anyone here has predictions on what she is thinking right now? She knows a lot of people, and a lot of guys. Is there any positive impression that might've come from this, or is it all "creepiness," even though I never offered the ring at all?

LOL I joked around with her brother, and I kept ranting about the idea that "I might've bought it for someone else," but for some reason he can see through me, and maybe even see the fact that I will never unwrap it from its gift wrapping, nor allow any other girl to...... but I don't know how he can tell how dedicated I am to this. I've tried every verbal method of denial.