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Old 05-23-2007, 08:59 PM   #11 (permalink)
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Sure there's nothing really wrong with it, her personal choice really. I just get so sick of people having kids selfishly though. And while I don't know this woman's motivations, it just seems incredibley odd to me to want to do that. It's like people have the attitude, well I am built to have/help make (men's case) babies so why not? Or, I'm lonely I want a kid. Or I am dumb and don't use protection, oops a kid. Or, our marriage sucks, let's have a baby to make things better. Or the government will pay me more the more kids I have. I wonder what this ladies other kids think of this? I know if my mum decided to have more children I would be personally disgusted. I mean, especially coz I hate her boyfriend, and it wouldn't be a full sibling to me. But I'd be thinking... mid life crisis? Or in this other woman's case, three/quarter life crisis? I dunno, it weirds me out.

On a side note: ngdawg, I'm so glad you were able to have kids But I completely get what you're saying about not continuing to try past a certain point, as you said, menopause happens for a reason! Mother nature's way of saying NO KIDS FOR YOU! Hehee.
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