Love is one thing. Compatibility is something else altogether.
Have you lived together yet?
What kind of selfish tendencies are we talking about here, btw? (If you feel like expanding the discussion.)
And do you have any selfish tendencies? Considering that perspective is always helpful for me in balancing out any antagonism towards my husband... I'm hella selfish too, when it comes down to it. Just in less obvious, more pernicious ways...
